My Dad...my Elmer

Not every Ham has the privilege of having another Ham in the family. A few of us were blessed to have a Ham as their Dad. (I also have a younger brother who is also a Ham.) I guess I can thank Dad for my fantastic time as a Ham and also in shaping what would be my career as well.

As a young boy, I can remember Dad studying to write his Amateur exam. The time period was the early 1960's; those were the days when the Radio Inspector at the Department of Communications gave the exam. The "student" had to know the electronic theory, the regulations and 10 wpm sending & receiving the International Morse code. I can remember the 33-1/3 rpm LP "code practice" record that Dad had purchased from Heathkit. His first call sign was VE3EHE but later on, he exchanged that call sign for VE3CRW and kept that call sign as his permanent one. (When the "VA3" call signs became available, he paid to get VA3CRW as well.)

Memories are many and varied. I can remember him using Morse on the air with his DX60 Heathkit transmitter. A while later he got his 10M endorsement for SSB and some time down the road, he passed his advanced exam and received privileges of operating/transmitting on voice on the HF bands below 10M. He used AM first, as SSB was still in its infancy. When he graduated to SSB, I believe he had a Heathkit HW101, just as hundreds of other Hams used at that time in Amateur history. I can remember him working stations across Canada and saw some of the QSL cards he received from DX stations... so I know that working DX was part of his Ham activities.

Field Day was also an annual event for a number of years. He was very active in the 75M SSB Nets in and around Ontario. Some of the nets were the ONTARS Net, the Ontario Phone Net and the CJ net. Ham radio and the 80M nets became part of our "camp life" and my brother Bill's fishing camp. The generator and Dad's radio became our life line of communications and our touch to the outside world.

During my time working at Canadian General Electric in London, Dad and I grew closer together because I think he was proud of my accomplishment in becoming a radio technician. I sometimes think that poor Mom must have felt we had ganged up on her when Dad and I talked about radio stuff over coffee in the kitchen. He was kind enough to let me use his HF station on the weekends. I would talk to Hams in Europe; Mom especially enjoyed it when I made contact with guys in Scotland.

Dad had his certain ways of doing things and one of them was how to roll and unroll coaxial cable properly. A sharply-worded instruction session ensured that I would never forget how to do it the right way and I thank him for teaching me an important lesson. I fear that I have had to instruct others in the same manner about the same thing at Field Day here in BC!

Dad's move into the Queensway Retirement Home was necessary but I know he felt a tremendous loss when he had to give up much of the hobby that was such an important part of his life for so many years. Thankfully he still had contact with some of his local friends through his small radio in his room. It meant a lot to me to be able to help him with getting his last radio link working as well as possible when I was home last year.

One of the memories I shall treasure of last year's visit with him was overcoming the barrier of giving Dad a hug and crying on his shoulder when I said good bye. He reassured me by saying, "Now, now, now", almost with a British accent. I can hope that he was still able to see that I was still just a little boy at heart who had always loved and cherished his Dad.

My Dad became a Silent Key on April 1, 2008.

73 Dad and see you down the log.

de VE7NI